Ride or Lie

Alone Together (Part Two) — Are We Too Good at Being Alone?

In Part Two of our Alone Together: Solitude vs Loneliness series, Shan and CoCo sit down with our friend to the show, King Kieta to take the conversation deeper. We unpack the complex emotions behind solitude and loneliness, and ask: have we gotten too comfortable being alone?
King Kieta opens up about her personal struggles with anxiety and how isolation has shaped her journey. She takes us behind the scenes of Boosie’s infamous annual pool party, where the chaotic energy collided with her inner world in unexpected ways.
We explore the tension between independence and intimacy — and wrestle with questions like:
Are we actually avoiding connection… or protecting people from our inner chaos?
When solitude is survival, how do we shift gears to share life with someone else?
Can we unlearn hyper-independence in a culture that glorifies it?
This episode is a raw, real, and necessary deep-dive into emotional self-awareness, healing, and what it means to love and be loved when you’ve mastered being alone.
💬 Join the Conversation:Are you too good at being alone? Have you ever felt like you're saving others from your own mess? DM us or drop a comment with your story—we may feature it on an upcoming episode!

Alone Together: Navigating Solitude vs Loneliness

In this episode, Shan and CoCo unpack the nuances of being alone, exploring the differences between solitude and loneliness. Joining them is special friend of the show, King Kieta, who shares her insights on how she embraces solitude and the joy it brings her. The trio discuss their independent lives and the appreciation they've found in moments of solitude. But are we confusing loneliness for solitude? Let's get into it. They also reflect on the fine line between solitude and loneliness, with real-life examples and quotes from a video featuring Jay Shetty and Ryan Clark from The Pivot.
We Want to Hear from You!
Have you ever uncovered surprising truths about someone you were dating? Or perhaps you’ve realized you were presenting a ‘representative’ version of yourself? Share your stories and thoughts with us on social media: @rideorliepodcast
Email Us: ridewithus@rideorlie.com
Additional Resources:
The Pivot Podcast
Tune in for an engaging and reflective conversation that might just change your perspective on alone time!

Who Are We and Who Are We Really Dating?

In this episode of the Ride or Lie podcast, hosts Shan and Coco delve into the complexities of truly knowing one’s partner. They introduce the new ‘Ride or Lie’ segment, where they explore real-life scenarios that challenge perceptions of trust and understanding in relationships.
Highlights from this episode include:
Shan’s Story: Shan opens up about a past relationship that escalated to the point of requiring a restraining order, shedding light on the importance of recognizing red flags early on.
Coco’s Personal Experience: Coco shares her journey of discovering her partner’s mental health struggles 2 months into dating, leading to profound insights about communication and support.
The ‘Representative’ Phenomenon: A discussion on how individuals often present an idealized version of themselves in the early stages of dating, influenced by upbringing and societal expectations.
Recognizing Authenticity: Tips and insights on identifying genuine behavior versus façades in potential partners, emphasizing the significance of self-awareness and open communication.
We Want to Hear from You!
Have you ever uncovered surprising truths about someone you were dating? Or perhaps you’ve realized you were presenting a ‘representative’ version of yourself? Share your stories and thoughts with us on social media: @rideorliepodcast
Email Us: ridewithus@rideorlie.com
Additional Resources:
For a deeper understanding of self-awareness in relationships, consider exploring this resource: Harvard Business Review on Self-Awareness
Tune in to this episode for an engaging conversation that challenges perceptions and encourages introspection in the realm of dating and relationships.

The Friend Zone Debate: Blessing or Curse?

Is being in the friend zone really a bad thing, or is it an underrated space for genuine connection and growth? 
On this episode of the Ride or Lie Podcast, we’re diving into the friend zone—what it really means, how it happens, and whether it can actually be a good thing in today’s dating landscape.
What We Cover in This Episode:
What is the friend zone, really? (And why our definitions might not match up!)
Why do people get friend-zoned? Are "nice guys" really finishing last?
Is it possible to escape the friend zone? Or is it a lifelong sentence?
Can the friend zone lead to deeper connections? Or is it just a polite way of saying “not interested”?
Men vs. Women: Who friendzones more, and how does it impact relationships?
Are some people just pretending to be friends, waiting for their chance?
Hope vs. Reality: Do mixed signals create false hope, and who’s responsible for managing it?
Featuring:
This week we’re joined by Jarratt DAMN of the It's About Damn Time podcast, who keeps it 100% real about his experiences in the friend zone, calling out the hard truths and dropping gems on how relationships really work.
We Want to Hear from You!Have you ever been friend-zoned? Have you ever friend-zoned someone and regretted it? Did you or someone you know make it out of the friend zone and into a successful relationship? Drop your thoughts in the comments or tag us on social media (@rideorliepodcast).

How You Swiping: The Dos & Dont's of Online Dating

In this episode of the Ride or Lie Podcast, Shan and Coco dive headfirst into the wild world of modern dating apps with a candid, laugh-out-loud conversation about "swipe life." Whether you’re a seasoned swiper or just dipping your toe into the digital dating pool, this episode has all the advice (and tea) you need to level up your game.

Self-Sabotaging Love: Why We Get in Our Own Way

Welcome to Ride or Lie! In this raw and revealing episode of Ride or Lie, we dive deep into something many of us struggle with but rarely discuss openly, self-sabotage in dating and relationships. Hosts Shan and Coco get vulnerable about their own patterns of getting in their own way when it comes to love.
Join us as we explore modern love and build our own community of "Riders."
Connect: @RideorLiePodcast!

A New Beginning: Navigating Modern Dating

A New Beginning: Navigating Modern DatingWelcome to Ride or Lie! Bring in the new year with your hosts Shan, a travel entrepreneur and newly single mom, and Coco, A creative with Ghanaian roots, as we share unique takes on trust, dating apps, boundaries, and balancing love and life with our personal growth.
Join us as we explore modern love and build our own community of "Riders."
Connect: @RideorLiePodcast!

DETOUR AHEAD: How are the ROL Gworls!?! Where They At?

Big things coming...Big updates....This episode gives you a glimpse into what we've been doing and what we've been working on. But we can't give it all away. So keep riding with us! -Shan & CoCo